The first time I sang to her was a couple of years before that.
My singing voice is best suited to humming, but sometimes snatches of lyrics bubble up in my mind and demand to be sung. We were sitting at the dining room table in her apartment one evening, playing Scrabble with the radio on.Â Without any planning or conscious thought, I found myself singing along with Anne Murray:
Even though we ain’t got money,
I’m so in love with you, honey,
Everything will bring a chain of love.
And in the morning, when I rise,
You bring a tear of joy to my eyes
And tell me everything is gonna be alright.
She liked it enough that I started looking for other worthy musical tributes.Â On our wedding weekend, we were sitting around that same dining room table, now in our Maplewood home, casually eating pizza with a few guests from out of town.Â The Web Goddess mentioned that I sometimes sing goofy love songs to her, and of course one of her friends said instantly, “sing one for us.”
Shania Twain sings it better but doesn’t feel it any stronger:
You’re the reason I believe in love
And you’re the answer to my prayers from up above.
All we need is just the two of us
My dreams came true… because of you
My favorite line may be the one in the headline.Â Much of the rest of the Dead’s Sugar Magnolia is wholly unsuitable for this purpose, but that line works. Our first date was in the summer, and the relationship kindled that evening has sustained me through every change of season.
Happy anniversary, Sweetie.Â I love you.
(Photo by the Web Goddess — holding the camera in her left hand)